I have been around numerous people of all walks of life and they all seem to share one common mark in their lives,a mark of love.
I have had my fair beating I will admit of this animal we call love,one way or the other and I will tell you it isn't pretty but it isn't too bad neither. It is almost a religious type of experience,it can only be admired if you have fallen captive to it. When you are in it,you will enjoy it but not without some pain.
It seems to every supernatural experience there is a sacrifice to be borne and I wonder if the sacrifice of love is the heart. How you love someone so much it hurts. To feel that longing to be with someone will tend to uplift you yet dampen you at the same time,especially when that someone is not around. The dynamics similar to those of a storm at sea that came from nowhere and calms as quickly as it started.
The topic so broad I cannot exhaust on an infinite piece of paper.
It feels good to love someone and to be loved and that can hardly be disputed,but the same goes of how love can hurt at times.
Then there comes that monster all hearts fear,the heartbreak. I could stop right here but let me continue a bit more. Is it possible there is a mature lady or gentleman out there who has never had their heart broken? I would love to know of this individual.
The reality of it all is that it always takes another heart to break another. It will break you if you love someone and they don't love you back. It will break your heart if you love too much. It will break your heart when this revelation comes to you. It will break your heart even more when you cannot accept that the other person doesn't love you back.
It appears to be a paradox that people who you love the most don't love you back the same,whether this is true or not,I cannot say for I have not been through the heart of every man.
Then comes the recovery or should I say the comeback after a heartbreak. It comes in different places and at different times with different people. Others will recover faster than others while others will take a bit more time,well maybe more than necessary.
I sat down one afternoon and I happened to come accross a song by Don Williams titled 'you fool my heart',I think that's the title. I strongly related with the lyrics this artist sung...'fool,fool heart,what have you done,I thought by now you had enough,but no you had me falling in love again...fool fool heart,guess you never learnt,taking chances like what you doing is smart..my fool heart...fool fool heart,how quickly you forget...just when you were about to mend you feel like you in luck so you try it again..' I earnestly think these words are priceless in defining the recovery process of love as well as the secret of love. In as much as it usually hurts us,most people and I emphasize 'most people' will tend to go back into it. Is it because we can't live without it? I don't know.
It goes beyond rocket science how we tread within our heart now and in the future.
I could write a lot but I will lose track too many times.
I exit with this advice,no matter how someone says they love you,if they can't show it with their actions,if they are not willing to make sacrifices for you or part away with somethings,they don't love you.
